But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a licensed sex psychotherapist based in San Francisco, to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. Now, onto this week's topic: How to talk dirty without feeling like an idiot. Q: My boyfriend and I have pretty good sex, if I do say so myself.
Online dating agency, Saucy Dates , has revealed what men and women prefer to hear between the sheets. Curious to find out more about what others like, I asked 11 people to tell me their favourite phrases in the bedroom. I lie still and basically do pelvic floor exercises to make it move. But, last year I had a brief online fling with a guy who kept saying that he was the alpha male of all males and that I should call him daddy. What I like to hear can vary, if they talk too much I find it irritating and just want them to shut up. The show is available now on iTunes here and on Soundcloud here. Metro bloggers Miranda Kane and Bibi Lynch co-host the show, chatting to a different guest about all things sex and relationships each week.
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